Fellow Sinner, are you struggling with sins that you just can't give up? Force of habit is a strong thing, but you yourself know that habit is not the whole story, that you enjoy sinning. Of course you do. We all do. Why else would we sin if it weren't somehow fun or rewarding to us? You may realize intellectually that your sin harms you in the long run, but you calculate that the immediate pay off is better than the long term pay out. That sounds a bit harsh, but it's really true. There is a kind of calculation going on here.
Alice Boyes writes ...
There's a benefit, then, from being miserable. If you are suffering some painful consequence of your own sin, realize that this is a great grace, and that this judgment is maybe the only thing that will ever lead you to repentance.
Alice Boyes writes ...
Change Happens When You're Ready? We often hear "Change will happen when you're ready". In my more than 20 years of experience [as a psychologist], I've come to understand that "ready"--or the tipping point of change--often means 'when the consequences of our behavior outweigh the value of that behavior to us'. In other words, when the pay out (consequence) becomes greater than the pay back (value) we are prompted by circumstance to change what we are doing. This perspective can apply to anything from self-care, to relationship, to addiction. Of course, we then confront the question, "Are we willing to change?"
There's a benefit, then, from being miserable. If you are suffering some painful consequence of your own sin, realize that this is a great grace, and that this judgment is maybe the only thing that will ever lead you to repentance.
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